Improve your Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

Using mindfulness, you will learn how to become self-aware, improve your self-management, increase your social awareness and enhance your relationship skills.  Great leaders have a high EQ.  People naturally want to be around them.  They make others feel safe, seen and heard.  

According to Michelle Bennett at the Niagra Institute: :

  • The demand for emotional skills will grow by 26% by 2030. (McKinsey)
  • Emotional intelligence is among the 10 most in-demand skills and will be through at least 2025. (World Economic Forum)
  • People with high emotional intelligence make an average of $29,000 per year more than people with low emotional intelligence. On average, every point increase in emotional intelligence adds $1,300 to an annual salary. (TalentSmart)
  • 75% of people managers use emotional intelligence to gauge employees’ readiness for promotion and eligibility for a salary increase. (Lee Hecht Harrison Penna)
  • Out of 34 essential workplace skills, emotional intelligence was found to be the strongest predictor of performance, explaining a full 58% of success in all types of jobs. (TalentSmart)
  • 57% of people managers say that their highest-performing employees have strong emotional intelligence. (Lee Hecht Harrison Penna)

https://www.niagarainstitute.com/blog/emotional-intelligence-statisticsMichelle Bennett 

Have you ever had thoughts like these?

  • I don’t know why I did that.
  • Why do I get so upset?
  • Why do we argue all the time?
  • Why can’t we just get along?
  • Nothing seems to make me happy.
  • Why don’t they understand what I am saying?
  • Why don’t they love me or show that they love me?

 

If any of these thoughts have gone through your head or other thoughts about why your relationships are not in the place you would like them to be, check out The MARE Foundation concepts.  Let me help you navigate the aspects of Emotional Intelligence and understand your feelings and how to manage them in a way that benefits you.

Many experiences in life are lessons in learning about ourselves. If we continue to get into relationships and have them dissolve or be troubled, we need to look into what we are seeking in these relationships.  What are the expectations that we have? Are we setting appropriate boundaries? Are we having empathy for their perspective? Relationships are complex, even work relationships can be challenging if we are not using all the emotional intelligence concepts. 

Have you found yourself blaming others for troubles in your life? Blaming others puts us in the victim role and creates an attitude of helplessness. But the good news is that you have power! You CAN do something. TAKE ACTION! Taking action creates self-confidence and boosts our self-esteem.  Think of the last time that you set a goal for yourself and then started taking action. Even if you did not achieve the goal, you felt the positive benefits while you were making the changes needed. It wasn’t the tasks you were doing, but the knowing that you were taking some control over your life, which created that positive feeling.